My heart says “danke schoen”

Every holiday has its traditions, and Thanksgiving is no exception.  Roast turkey and stuffing.  Cranberry sauce.  Football on TV.  Football in the back yard.  Black Friday strategizing.  Spirited (sometimes contentious) family debates around the table.  Perhaps most important, heartfelt expressions of gratitude.

And there’s one more.  At the homes of music lovers like me, it’s time to dig out a copy of the Arlo Guthrie album with the 18-minute story-song called “Alice’s Restaurant Massacree,” recorded in 1967.  It’s a partly serious, mostly whimsical telling of a true story that happened “two Thanksgivings ago, two years ago on Thanksgiving” in and

around alices-restaurantStockbridge, Massachusetts.  It involves Guthrie and some friends, especially Alice, who cooked “a Thanksgiving dinner that couldn’t be beat,” a ton of garbage, and a cop named Officer Obie.  Frankly, the rambling piece is only marginally about this holiday, but the hip FM radio stations in most cities would always play it on Thanksgiving morning, and ever since, I make a point of cranking up the volume at my house and singing along when Arlo instructs us to do so.

Other than “Alice’s Restaurant,” though, Thanksgiving doesn’t seem to have a soundtrack.  Unlike Christmas, with its hundreds and hundreds of carols and secular Yuletide music, there are precious few songs that fit this holiday of gratitude and thanks.

But wait.  Hack’s Back Pages has done some digging, and I’ve found enough appropriate tunes to compile a pretty decent gaggle of songs to commemorate the day.  I’ve offered a sample of lyrics and a little background trivia behind each one, and there’s a Spotify setlist at the end so you can listen along.

Here’s hoping you have plenty to be grateful for, and are surrounded by family and/or friends with whom you can share the day.  Peace.

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55dc153b2c6c20e32265ffecadf302551b2e9c64“My Thanksgiving,” Don Henley, 2000

Henley collaborated with former Heartbreakers drummer Stan Lynch to write several songs for his overlooked 2000 album “Inside Job,” including this poignant tune about a man looking back with regret on his years gone by, and the blessings he didn’t appreciate at the time.  But it’s never too late to be grateful:   “And I don’t mind saying that I loved it all, I wallowed in the springtime, now I’m welcoming the fall, for every moment of joy, every hour of fear, for every winding road that brought me here, for every  breath, for every day of living, this is my thanksgiving…”

41foymfwnml-_sx425_“Gratitude,” Earth, Wind & Fire, 1976

With disco music on the rise, Earth, Wind & Fire could seemingly do no wrong in 1975-76, and their mostly-live LP “Gratitude” topped the charts for three weeks, sparked by the #1 single “Sing a Song.”  The Grammy-nominated title track, written by group leader Maurice White, exemplified his focus on positivity and spiritual peace:  “Want to thank you, want to thank you, we just want to give gratitude, got plenty of love we want to give to you with good music, and we’re trying to say that the good Lord’s going to make a way…”

sdity“I Thank You,” Sam and Dave, 1967, and ZZ Top, 1980

“You didn’t have to love me like you did, but you did, and I thank you, you didn’t have to hold me like you did, but you did, and I thank you…”  Isaac “Theme From Shaft” Hayes and David Porter wrote this soul classic in 1968, and Sam & Dave’s recording reached #9 that year.  Texas blues rockers ZZ Top covered it in 1980, and later, Bon Jovi, Bonnie Raitt and Paul Rodgers also recorded cover versions.

brook-benton-thank-you-pretty-baby-vintage-r-b-mercury-sheet-music-and-lyrics_933068“Thank You Pretty Baby,” Brook Benton, 1959, and Nat King Cole, 1964

In the ’50s, Benton was a songwriter for crooners like Nat King Cole until he was persuaded to record his songs himself, thus beginning a solid career as a solo artist, charting a dozen Top Ten hits in the 1959-1962 period, and throughout the ’60s on the R&B chart, culminating in the #4 hit “Rainy Night in Georgia” in 1970.  He and Cole both recorded this song of appreciation for the woman the singer so clearly loves:  “Thank you for your loving ways, thank you because you’ve been so kind, I’m gonna just take my time and thank you honey, because you’re mine, all mine…” 

led-zeppelin-ii-1400175028“Thank You,” Led Zeppelin, 1969

This is one of a half-dozen acoustic-based ballads released by the undisputed kings of hard blues rock.  Carried along mostly by delicate electric and acoustic guitars and subtle organ, the song features a pretty melody sung by Robert Plant, who wrote the lyrics as a loving tribute to his wife:  “And so today, my world it smiles, your hand in mine, we walk the miles, thanks to you it will be done, for you to me are the only one…”

r-4456576-1386950644-4182-jpeg“Thank You (Falettinme Be Mice Elf Agin),” Sly and The Family Stone, 1970

“Dance to the music, all night long, everyday people, sing a simple song, mama’s so happy, mama start to cry, papa still singin’, you can make it if you try, ah, I want to thank you for lettin’ me be myself again…”   Sylvester Stewart, known worldwide as Sly Stone, wrote the lyrics to most of the group’s songs, including this one, the third of four #1 singles the pop/funk/soul band charted between 1968 and 1971.  The lyrics offer a virtual word salad of disjointed thoughts and images but keep coming back to the chorus, where he expresses gratitude for being allowed to just “be myself again.”  Translation:  After all the posturing, it’s good to get back to the real person inside.

thank_you_for_being_a_friend_-_andrew_gold“Thank You For Being a Friend,” Andrew Gold, 1978

Most of the instruments you hear behind Linda Ronstadt’s vocals on her mid-’70s hit albums were played by musical virtuoso Andrew Gold, who went solo in 1977 and had a top ten hit with “Lonely Boy.” The next year, “Thank You For Being a Friend” followed as a modest #25 hit, but it’s better known (in a version recorded by Cynthia Fee) as the theme song to the popular sitcom “The Golden Girls” (1985-1992).  In a 2010 appearance by Betty White on “Saturday Night Live,” it was affectionately sung to her by past and present cast members:  “And when we both get older, with walking canes and hair of gray, have no fear, even though it’s hard to hear, I will stand real close and say, ‘Thank you for being a friend’…”

b4f7585036a2a8f80b5dfe1dc1eafbb7“Thank You,” Dido, 2000

British singer-songwriter Florian “Dido” Armstrong exploded out of the box in 1999 with her “No Angel” album, which peaked at #4 in the US and went on to sell an astonishing 22 million copies worldwide.  The #3 hit “Thank You” was spurred on by its use in the TV show “Roswell,” the film “Love Actually” and, most prominently, as an element in Eminem’s huge hit rap song “Stan,” which was on the charts simultaneously with Dido’s single.  Its lyrics show gratitude to her boyfriend for being there when she needed him most:  “Push the door, I’m home at last and I’m soaking through and through, then you handed me a towel, and all I see is you, and even if my house falls down now, I wouldn’t have a clue, because you’re near me, and I want to thank you for giving me the best day of my life, oh just to be with you is having the best day of my life…”

116233675“Thanks,” James Gang, 1970

Joe Walsh was just 22 when he became the guitarist, singer and chief songwriter of Cleveland’s heroes, The James Gang.  Walsh’s songs “Funk #49” and “Walk Away” became national hits, and Walsh himself went on to become a major star in his own right, first as a solo act and then as a member of The Eagles.  On the 1970 album “James Gang Rides Again,” the lyrics to Walsh’s track “Thanks” took a somewhat resigned, matter-of-fact approach to life:  “Thanks to the hand that feeds you, give the dog a bone, thanks to the man that gives you, haven’t got your own, that’s the way the world is, get just what you can, wake up again tomorrow, a little less a man, woh-oh…”  

r-6223553-1414122226-9323-jpeg“Thank You Friends,” Big Star, 1974

The critically acclaimed but commercially unsuccessful Big Star released three albums in the early ’70s, which eventually received attention in the ’80s when bands like R.E.M. and The Replacements mentioned them as a major influence.  Lead singer Alex Chilton, who had wowed the US when he sang the #1 hit “The Letter” with The Box Tops at age 16, wrote most of their material, including this joyous tribute to good friends:  “Thank you friends, wouldn’t be here if it wasn’t for you, I’m so grateful for all the things you helped me do, all the ladies and gentlemen who made this all so probable…”

the-beatles-second-album-cover“Thank You Girl,” The Beatles, 1963

“You’ve been good to me, you made me glad when I was blue, and eternally, I’ll always be in love with you, and all I wanna do is thank you girl, thank you girl, thank you girl for loving me the way that you do, that’s the kind of love that is too good to be true…”   This formulaic early Lennon-McCartney song was written as the follow-up single to their first #1 hit in England, “Please Please Me,” with “From Me to You” slated for the B-side.  In the end, though, “From Me to You” won out, and “Thank You Girl” became the B-side.  In the US, it appeared on the Capitol album “The Beatles’ Second Album” in 1964.  Said Lennon in 1980:  “One of our efforts at writing a single that didn’t work.”  Said McCartney about it in 1989:  “A bit of a hack song, but all good practice.”

thank_you“Thank U,” Alanis Morissette, 1998

Morissette was only 21 when her “Jagged Little Pill” LP spawned four hits and ended up selling 16 million copies in the US alone.  Things had exploded so fast for her, she said, that she needed to take some time off.  “When I did stop, and I was silent, and I breathed, I was just left with an immense sense of gratitude, and inspiration, and bliss, and that’s where the lyrics to ‘Thank U’ came from.”  It reached #1 in her native Canada and #17 here:  “How about me not blaming you for everything, how about me enjoying the moment for once, how about how good it feels to finally forgive you, how about grieving it all one at a time, thank you India, thank you Providence, thank you disillusionment, thank you frailty, thank you consequence, thank you thank you silence…”

17“Thank the Lord for the Night Time,” Neil Diamond, 1967

Neil Diamond’s career as a songwriter (he wrote several of The Monkees’ hits like “I’m a Believer”) started shifting to singer/songwriter in 1966 with the #6 hit “Cherry, Cherry,” and his fifth single was this lively toast to the nighttime, which reached #13:  “I thank the Lord for the night time, forget the day, a day of up, uptight time, baby, chase it away, I get relaxation, it’s a time to groove, I thank the Lord for the right time, I thank the Lord for you…”

5fe9d8e8f08344bb2a2666f05968ec13-640x640x1“Grateful,” Anthony Hamilton, 2016

In this blog, I don’t generally focus on recent songs, but sometimes exceptions are necessary.  The talented R&B composer-singer Anthony Hamilton, widely praised by critics and nominated for multiple industry awards, rose to prominence in 2003 with his album and title song “Coming Where I’m Comin’ From.”  Hamilton has the respect of his musical peers, who have flocked to collaborate with him these past dozen years.  His 2016 release “What I’m Feelin'” includes the heartfelt album track “Grateful,” which is well worth seeking out:  “Here I am, a new man, the best days of my life, and it goes without saying, you’ve turned it all around, introduced me to love, when I had given up, and I’m so grateful for you…  The way you changed my life, I owe it all to you, I found real love in you, all because of you…”

r-2883539-1364799570-9512-jpeg“Danke Schoen,” Wayne Newton, 1963

Bert Kaempfert, a German orchestra leader who wrote Nat King Cole’s “L-O-V-E” and Frank Sinatra’s “Strangers in the Night,” also wrote Wayne Newton’s biggest hit, which was supposed to be Bobby Darin’s follow-up to “Mack the Knife” in 1963 until Darin heard Newton sing it and gave it to him.  (Language lesson:  The rough translation of the German “danke schoen” is “thank you kindly.”)  The song got a second life in 1988 when it was featured in “Ferris Bueller’s Day Off” when Ferris sang it (lip-synching Newton’s recording) from a parade float:  “Thank you for seeing me again, though we go on our separate ways, still the memory stays for always, my heart says danke schoen, danke schoen, my darling…”

 

Mama pajama rolled out of bed

It was just over a century ago when President Wilson declared the second Sunday of May to be Mother’s Day, a national holiday set aside to honor mothers, motherhood, maternal bonds and the influence of mothers in society.

Mom, after all, is “the person who has done more for you than anyone in the world,” said Anna Jarvis, the Suffragette-era activist who spearheaded the move for an official Mother’s Day.

imgres-12Popular music has not missed out on the opportunity to celebrate mothers — or, at least, to include “Mama” in a song title!  From hard rock to country, from Top 40 pop to soul, mothers have served as great subject matter for songs of all kinds.  Even that freaky iconoclast, the late Frank Zappa, and his first band, The Mothers of Invention, offered a song called “Motherly Love” on their 1966 debut: “Motherly love is just the thing for you, you know your Mothers gonna love you ’til you don’t know what to do…”  So what if it was about the band, not the woman?

I’ve selected 15 tracks that I think make a nice mix of songs for you to play when Mom comes over for dinner this Sunday.  (See the Spotify playlist below.)  If she’s a little bit open-minded, she might even find most of them enjoyable!

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TheBeatlesMagicalMysteryTouralbumcover“Your Mother Should Know,” The Beatles, 1967

This track was one of the half-dozen Paul McCartney sing-song numbers recorded by The Beatles in their final three years that John Lennon derisively referred to as “Granny music” (songs that your grandparents would like).  It was written expressly for an old-fashioned dance segment in the band’s experimental film “Magical Mystery Tour” in which the foursome descend a grand staircase in white tuxedos.  Musically, it’s rather slight compared to the more challenging work they were doing at the time, but it has a nice sentiment that Dear Old Mom should love.

ghost-of-a-dog-50a76c50cc806“Mama Help Me,” Edie Brickell & the New Bohemians, 1990

This singer-songwriter out of Dallas (who has been Paul Simon’s wife for more than 20 years) had a #9 hit in 1988 called “What I Am,” and four lesser Top 40 hits including this vibrant song from their 1990 LP, “Ghost of a Dog.”  Its lyrics remind us all to seek out and value the advice and counsel available from the best source of all:  “Mama mama mama mama help me, mama mama mama tell me what to do…

“That’s All Right Mama,” Elvis Presley, 1954

search-5In one of his earliest recording sessions, Elvis and his combo were messing around with a speeded-up version of this old Arthur Crudup blues tune.  Producer Sam Phillips was immediately struck by it and concluded it was the sound he’d been looking for, and it ended up as Elvis’s first single and, many claim, one of the first rock and roll songs ever.  In the lyrics, a mother warns her son, “That gal you’re foolin’ with, she ain’t no good for you,” but he reassures her that everything will be fine.

Stacy's_Mom_(album)“Stacy’s Mom,” Fountains of Wayne, 2003

This song by Fountains of Wayne, which reached #21 in 2003, enjoys the distinction of being the first song to reach #1 on the “most downloaded songs” list at the iTunes store.  The song was inspired by the hugely popular film “American Pie,” which had a sexy, frisky character known as “Stifler’s Mom,” unofficially known in pop culture as the original “MILF.”

NS-TeachtheWorldCDsingle“Look What They’ve Done to My Song, Ma,” The New Seekers, 1970;  Miley Cyrus, 2012

Melanie Safka, best known for her 1972 Number One ditty “Brand New Key” and the #6 hit “Lay Down (Candles in the Rain),” wrote and recorded “What Have They Done to My Song, Ma” in 1970, but it was The New Seekers whose #14-ranked version you heard on the radio that year.  If you search for it, you might also find a killer version of it by Miley Cyrus on her “Backyard Sessions” EP in 2012.

38bcd147cd4fd1dca78594b33dad4302“Tie Your Mother Down,” Queen, 1976

This hard rock song from Queen’s “A Day at the Races” LP is not as disturbing as the title sounds.  Guitarist Brian May has said it’s about a young guy who doesn’t like his girlfriend’s parents intervening whenever he’s hoping to get lucky, so he kiddingly suggests they “lock your father out of doors and tie your mother down.”  Not the best song to commemorate Mom on Mother’s Day, but, well, it’s only rock ‘n roll…

118234309“Mama Told Me Not to Come,” Three Dog Night, 1970

Randy Newman, one of the more celebrated songwriters and film composers of his generation, came up with this song as part of his 1970 debut release, “12 Songs.”  He mostly failed to achieve commercial success as a recording artist, but his songs often did well in the hands of others.  Three Dog Night had one of the biggest radio hits of 1970 with their version, which features one of Newman’s typically sardonic lyrics about a guy who is uncomfortable attending parties and realizes he should’ve listened to his mother’s advice.

imgres-13“Mama Said,” The Shirelles, 1961

The Shirelles were a trio of teenagers from New Jersey who became one of the early “girl group” successes with several classic singles during the 1960-1963 period.  “Mama Said” reached #4 as their third consecutive Top Five hit, with lyrics that reinforced the wisdom of a mother’s warning about how young love can knock you off your feet:  “Mama said there’ll be days like this, there’ll be days like this, my mama said…”

online_sleeve“Mother,” John Lennon, 1970

Lennon had a tortured relationship with his mother.  She was a free spirit who couldn’t handle the responsibilities of mothering, so she handed him off to her sister Mimi to raise him, while keeping in touch like an aunt in a sort of role reversal.  Then she was killed by a drunk driver when he was 14.  Following “primal scream” therapy at age 29, Lennon wrote this harrowing track that simultaneously mourns her death and excoriates her abandonment of him:  “Mother, you had me, but I never had you, I wanted you, but you didn’t want me, so I just got to tell you goodbye…   

220px-Paulsimonmother“Mother & Child Reunion,” Paul Simon, 1972

In 1971, recently split from his partner Art Garfunkel and eager to begin his solo career, Simon was in a Chinese restaurant in New York City one night when he was taken by a chicken-and-egg dish on the menu called Mother and Child Reunion.  “What a great song title,” he thought, and before long, it became Simon’s first solo single, using the compelling Jamaican rhythms known as reggae for the first time in an American Top Ten hit.  The lyrics describe the “strange and mournful day” when the mother (the chicken) and the child (the egg) are reunited on a dinner plate.

Ozzy_Osbourne_-_No_More_Tears“Mama I’m Coming Home,” Ozzy Osbourne, 1992

The “godfather of heavy metal” as lead singer of Black Sabbath made only one solo appearance on the US Top 40 singles chart with this power ballad, which reached #28 in 1992.  It was written specifically about Ozzy’s wife Sharon, with whom he has had a publicly tempestuous relationship (“You made me cry, you told me lies, but I can’t stand to say goodbye, mama, I’m coming home…”).  Again, not exactly a song for Mom, but the desire to come home after being away could be interpreted as a tribute to maternal bonds.

Jackson5mamaspearl“Mama’s Pearl,” Jackson 5, 1971

In order to preserve the young Michael Jackson’s innocent image, Motown Records insisted that the title of The Jackson 5’s fifth hit single be changed from “Guess Who’s Making Whoopee (With Your Girlfriend)” to “Mama’s Pearl.”  The lyrics still spoke of a boy’s desire for his sheltered girlfriend to loosen up and go beyond the kissing stage (“Mama’s pearl, let down those curls, won’t you give my love a whirl, find what you been missing, ooh ooh now baby…”)

Waylon-and-Willie-58bac0393df78c353c4383a2“Mammas, Don’t Let Your Babies Grow Up to Be Cowboys,” Willie Nelson & Waylon Jennings, 1978

This duet by two of country music’s biggest stars was a huge seller when it topped the Hot Country Singles chart in 1978.  Its lyrics urge mothers everywhere to raise their children to be “doctors and lawyers and such” instead of cowboys, because “they ain’t easy to love and they’re harder to hold” and “they’ll never stay home and they’re always alone, even with someone they love…”  The track appeared in a scene from the 1979 Jane Fonda-Robert Redford film “The Electric Horseman.”

Aerosmith_-_Aerosmith“Mama Kin,” Aerosmith, 1973

Fresh out of Boston clubs, Aerosmith launched their career in 1973 with their debut album and first single, “Mama Kin.”  Composer Steven Tyler says the lyrics are essentially about “the importance of staying in touch with your family, your roots, your Mama Kin.”  The song stiffed on the singles charts but became a huge favorite on FM rock stations and in concert over the years.

Bob_Dylan_-_Together_Through_Life“Shake Shake Mama,” Bob Dylan, 2009

The master lyricist of his generation hasn’t written much about mothers.  He’s got a few songs in his repertoire that make fleeting references — “It’s Alright, Ma (I’m Only Bleeding)” (1965), Tough Mama” (1974) — but these are not motherly tributes.  Nor, really, is “Shake Shake Mama” from 2009’s “Together Through Life” LP, but I’ve included it here anyway.  “Shake shake Mama, shake until the break of day…shake shake Mama, raise your voice and bay…

imgres-14“Mother’s Little Helper,” The Rolling Stones, 1966

Peaking at #8 in 1966 was this notorious rocker from The Stones, with lyrics that pointed out the hypocrisy of parents who bemoaned their kids’ recreational drug use while using tranquilizers and other pills themselves:  “And though she’s not really ill, there’s a little yellow pill, she goes running for the shelter of a mother’s little helper, and it helps her on her way, gets her through her busy day…

51D7PQav3YL“Good Mother,” Jann Arden, 1994

This introspective singer-songwriter from Alberta, Canada, has won numerous Juno Awards and charted more than a dozen Top Ten albums and singles north of the border but has only a cult following in the states.  Her excellent “Living Under June” LP includes this tribute to the importance of great parents, with lines like “I’ve got a good mother, and her voice is what keeps me here…”

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Here are a few more that make my “honorable mention” list:  “Mother,” Pink Floyd, 1979; “This is to Mother You,” Sinead O’Connor, 1997;  “Mama Gets High,” Blood Sweat & Tears, 1971;  “Mama,” Genesis, 1983;  “Sweet Mama,” The Allman Brothers, 1975; “Motorcycle Mama,” Neil Young and Nicolette Larson, 1978;  “Mother Goose,” Jethro Tull, 1971;  “Mother Nature’s Son,” The Beatles, 1968;  “Mama Lion,” Crosby and Nash, 1975;  “Mother,” Chicago, 1971.