We just want to give gratitude

Melody Beattie, a pioneer of the self-help movement and a recovering addict herself, has written many inspirational books that have assisted many thousands on how to live fuller, more productive lives. She has said that being grateful for life’s blessings is a crucial component, and she wrote this marvelously succinct summary of the concept:

“Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend. It turns problems into gifts, failures into successes, the unexpected into perfect timing, and mistakes into important events. It can turn an existence into a real life, and disconnected situations into important and beneficial lessons. Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow. Gratitude makes things right.”

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In this special Thursday post on this music blog, I have gathered a dozen songs of gratitude from as far back as 1935 and as recent as 2018. They each focus on the importance of being thankful for what we have in a world where we sometimes forget that. There’s a Spotify playlist at the end for your listening pleasure.

Happy Thanksgiving!

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“My Thanksgiving,” Don Henley, 2000

Henley collaborated with former Heartbreakers drummer Stan Lynch to write several songs for his overlooked 2000 album “Inside Job,” including this poignant tune about a man looking back with regret on his years gone by, and the blessings he didn’t appreciate at the time.  The message of this song, it seems to me, is that it’s never too late to be grateful:   “And I don’t mind saying that I loved it all, I wallowed in the springtime, now I’m welcoming the fall, for every moment of joy, every hour of fear, for every winding road that brought me here, for every  breath, for every day of living, this is my thanksgiving…”

“Thanksgiving Prayer,” Joanne Cash, 2018

Country music icon Johnny Cash died in 2003, but his younger sister Joanne began her own musical career four years later at the age of 69 with the release of “Gospel” in 2007, the first of four LPs the deeply spiritual singer has produced. In 2018, the LP “Unbroken” included a dozen songs of religious devotion, including Josef Anderson’s sensitive “Thanksgiving Prayer,” which expresses gratitude for lifer’s blessings: “We’ve come to the time in the season when family and friends gather near /To offer a prayer of Thanksgiving for blessings we’ve known through the years… /I’m grateful for the laughter of children, the sun and the wind and the rain, /The color of blue in your sweet eyes, the sight of a high ballin’ train, /The moon rise over a prairie, an old love that you’ve made new, /And this year when I count my blessings, I’m thanking the Lord He made you…”

“I Want to Thank You,” Otis Redding, 1965

Soul music giant Redding was generally regarded as an interpreter of other composers’ works, but he also wrote a handful of original tunes, including “Respect,” the song that became Aretha Franklin’s signature piece. In 1965, on his second LP, “The Great Otis Redding Sings Soul Ballads,” he offered “I Want to Thank You,” a song of gratitude for the love and support of a woman who died prematurely: “I want to thank you for being so nice now, I want to thank you for giving me my pride, /Sweet kisses too, and everything you do, /I know I’ll never find another one like you…” Redding himself perished far too young at age 26 in a plane crash in 1967.

“Thanksgiving Song,” Mary Chapin-Carpenter, 2008

This talented singer-songwriter of country and folk music emerged from the Washington DC area in 1987, first reaching the Top Ten on US album charts in 1994 with “Stones in the Road.” She had an impressive run of Top Ten singles on country charts throughout the 1990s with original songs like “I Feel Lucky,” “Passionate Kisses,” “He Thinks He’ll Keep Her” and “Shut Up and Kiss Me.” In 2008, Chapin-Carpenter released “Come Darkness, Come Light: Twelve Songs of Christmas,” which featured “Thanksgiving Song,” a gentle song that conveys a significant message: “Grateful for what’s understood, and all that is forgiven, /We try so hard to be good, to lead a life worth living, /Father, mother, daughter, son, neighbor, friend, and friendless, /All together, everyone, let grateful days be endless…”

“Thanks to You,” Boz Scaggs, 2001

An original member of the Steve Miller Band in the late ’60s, Scaggs went solo in 1969 and had three Top Ten albums in the late ’70s including the platinum “Silk Degrees” with the hit “Lowdown.” He has continued to release smooth new LPs every 4-5 years through the decades since. In 2006, his overlooked album “Dig” included the heartfelt closer “Thanks to You,” a poignant ode to a life partner who provides much-needed love and support “as I balk and stumble through the world.” “Thanks to you, 
I’ve got a reason to get outta bed make a move or two, /Thanks to you, there’s a net below, ’cause otherwise, well I don’t know, /And thanks to you, there are promises of laughs and loves and labyrinths, /And reason to suspect that I’m meant for this, a smile, a song, a tender kiss, /Thanks to you…”

“(I’ve Got) Plenty to Be Thankful For,” Bing Crosby, 1942

From the mid-1920s well into the 1960s, Crosby was a leading singer, actor and radio star, a winner of Oscars and Grammys, and most famous for his recording of the seasonal classic “White Christmas,” first heard in the 1942 film “Holiday Inn.” That movie soundtrack featured a dozen other songs by the great Irving Berlin, each commemorating various holidays (Easter, Independence Day, Valentine’s Day) as part of the film’s plot. For Thanksgiving, Bing sings Berlin’s “(I’ve Got) Plenty to Be Thankful For,” with these lyrics of gratitude: “I’ve got eyes to see with, ears to hear with, /Arms to hug with, lips to kiss with, /Someone to adore, how could anybody ask for more? /My needs are small, I buy ’em all at the five and ten cent store, /Oh, I’ve got plenty to be thankful for…”

“Thankful ‘n Thoughtful,” Sly and the Family Stone, 1973

“Fresh,” the third of three enormously influential progressive-funk LPs released by Sly and The Family Stone in the 1969-1973 period, found Stone offering a lighter, more accessible version of the psychedelic soul found on “Stand!” and “There’s a Riot Goin’ On.” A typical example of this was the tune “Thankful N’ Thoughtful,” which explores Sly’s feelings about his drug excesses and how he found his way back from dark places: “From my ankle to the top of my head, I’ve taken my chances, hah, I could have been dead, /I started climbing from the bottom, oh yeah, all the way to the top, /Before I knew it, I was up there, you believe it or not, /That’s why I got to be thankful, yeah yeah, I got to be thoughtful, /Thankful, gotta be thoughtful…”

“Thank You,” Led Zeppelin, 1969

This dreamy track sits in stark contrast to the hard blues rock that makes up most of “Led Zeppelin II,” one of the undisputed pillars of the classic rock era. It’s a dramatic ballad carried along by harmonious electric and acoustic guitars and subtle organ, and a delicate melody sung by Robert Plant, who wrote the lyrics as a loving tribute to his wife:  “And so today, my world it smiles, your hand in mine, we walk the miles, thanks to you it will be done, for you to me are the only one…”

“Thanks a Million,” Louis Armstrong, 1935/1991

The songwriting team of Arthur Johnston and Gus Kahn wrote this jazzy number with Louis “Satchmo” Armstrong in mind, who recorded it in 1935 at the height of his popularity, although it wasn’t released as a single. In 1991, it appeared on “Volume 1: Rhythm Saved the World,” part of a compilation of his Decca Records catalog. Kahn’s lyrics express how grateful the singer is for his lover: “Thanks a million, a million thanks to you, /For everything that love could bring, you brought me, /Each tender love word you happened to say is hidden away in memory’s bouquet, /Thanks a million, for I remember too, /The tenderness that your caresses taught me, /You made a million dreams come true, and so I’m saying, Thanks a million to you…”

“Thanksgiving Day,” Tom Chapin, 2010 (original 1990)

Chapin’s older brother Harry established himself as a writer and singer of superb story-songs in the 1970s (“Taxi,” “Cat’s in the Cradle,” “Sniper”). Concurrently, Tom Chapin forged his own career in entertainment on children’s TV programs and on records beginning in 1976. Although never a big success on the charts, the younger Chapin has released many LPs of simple songs meant for all ages. His 1990 album “Mother Earth” was expanded in 2010 to include more songs including “Thanksgiving Day,” which explores the holiday’s history and evolution: “Everything changes, yes, even Thanksgiving, /Let’s rededicate this old day to helping the hungry, the poor and the homeless so all may be able to say, /Thanks for our health, thanks for our hearth and the bounty that grows from the ground, /With our loved ones near, we bless the year that’s brought us safely ’round…”

“Thanks,” The James Gang, 1970

Joe Walsh was just 22 when he became the guitarist, singer and chief songwriter of Cleveland’s heroes, The James Gang.  Walsh’s songs “Funk #49” and “Walk Away” became national hits, and Walsh himself went on to become a major star in his own right, first as a solo act and then as a member of The Eagles.  On the 1970 album “James Gang Rides Again,” Walsh wrote a largely acoustic track called simply “Thanks,” which took a somewhat resigned, matter-of-fact approach to life:  “Thanks to the hand that feeds you, give the dog a bone, thanks to the man that gives you, haven’t got your own, that’s the way the world is, woh-oh…”

“Thanks For the Memory,” Rod Stewart, 2005

Lyricist Leo Robin teamed up with composer Ralph Rainger to write several popular songs from movie soundtracks, including the witty “Diamonds Are a Girl’s Best Friend” from “Gentlemen Prefer Blondes” (1949) and the sentimental “Thanks For the Memory” from “Big Broadcast of 1938,” which won the Best Song Oscar that year. In the film, Bob Hope and Shirley Ross play a divorced couple who run into each other on a cruise ship and, after singing this song to each other, eventually choose to reunite. Artists like Hope, Dorothy Lamour, Bing Crosby, Ella Fitzgerald and Frank Sinatra recorded it in the years since, and rocker Rod Stewart covered it on the fourth volume of his Great American Songbook series in the 2000s. “Thanks for the memory of faults that you forgave… /And how are all those little dreams that never did come true? /Awfully glad I met you, cheerio and toodle-oo, /Thank you, thank you so much…”

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I write the songs that make the whole world sing

“I would write five songs to get one song.  I’d have a big junkyard of stuff written as the year went by.  If something wasn’t complete, I just pulled out the parts I liked, like taking the parts you need from several cars, and you put them in the other car so that car runs.” — Bruce Springsteen, on the songwriting process

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To the layman, the art of writing a song seems magical, almost otherworldly.

Many people find it hard enough just to write a coherent sentence or a paragraph, let alone an essay, a speech or, God forbid, a book.  The idea of conjuring up song lyrics and then putting them to music is… well, a Herculean task, and pretty much impossible.

So how do the songwriters do it?  How do they do it even once, never mind dozens of times?  How do icons like Bob Dylan or Paul McCartney write memorable song after memorable song just about every year from their teens into their 80s? Clearly, it’s a very rare, God-given talent.  And it is baffling.  Even the songwriters themselves are hard-pressed to explain exactly how it works or where their songs come from.

“Songwriting is a very mysterious process.  It feels like creating something from nothing. It’s something I don’t feel like I really control.”  — Tracy Chapman

“If I knew where the good songs came from, I’d go there more often.  It’s a mysterious condition.”  — Leonard Cohen

Those fortunate few who have the ability to craft a song concede that they often struggle to produce something they’re satisfied with.  The late Leon Russell, an exceptional pianist, arranger and recording artist, admitted that songwriting never came naturally to him.  “Songwriting was very tough for me.  I would go in and sit, and hope for inspiration to come, but it was rarely forthcoming.”

Most classical music composers studied the intricacies of music for many years before attempting to write an aria, sonata or symphony.  By contrast, many pop songwriters confess that they had little or no musical education.  Paul McCartney, the most successful songwriter of the past half-century, says he can’t read nor notate music.  It just comes to him by playing around with notes and chords as he plays guitar or piano.

“If I was to write a song right now,” McCartney said, “I’d use my usual method:  I’d either sit down with a guitar or at the piano and just look for melodies, chord shapes, musical phrases, some words, a thought just to get started with. And then I’d just sit with it to work it out, like I’m writing an essay or doing a crossword puzzle. That’s the system I’ve always used.”

Brian Wilson says the songs he wrote in The Beach Boys catalog were often begun on bass guitar.  “Knowing how to play bass affects how you write.  If you start with the bass line, you can be sure of having a firm structure.  Then you write the melody and the changes, and it flows from there.”

Neil Diamond may have put his finger on it when he explained what he saw as a major deficiency in his songwriting toolbox.  “I don’t deny now that it would have been nice to have had more background in music theory.  But because I never had any of that, songwriting is easily the hardest part of what I do.”

Paul Simon admits that it takes him a long time to write songs.  “For me, the music — or more accurately, the rhythm — usually comes first, and then a melody will suggest itself.  This may take weeks, even months.  Then I struggle a long time to settle on the lyric.  It’s very helpful to start with something that’s true.  If you start with something that’s false, you’re always covering your tracks.”

Some artists have had considerable success by regarding songwriting as a process.  Here’s Don Henley‘s take on it:  “My process hasn’t changed much at all.  I still use legal pads.  I do a lot of writing in my head when I’m engaged in other activities, like driving, or loading the dishwasher.  I find that when I’m doing menial tasks, my mind lets go of all the clutter, and then the creative stuff can bubble up from the subconscious.”

The late great David Bowie, whose lengthy career underwent numerous stylistic changes, said he found it helpful to have rules and a structural process, but he never minded breaking those rules now and then.  “I think process is quite important. To allow the accidental to take place is often very good.  So I trick myself into things like that.  Maybe I’ll write out five or six chords, then discipline myself to write something only with those five or six chords involved.  Of course, I’ll cheat as well.  If I’ve got the basis of something really quite good coming out of those five or six chords, then I’ll allow myself to restructure it a bit, if I think, well, that could be so much better if instead it went to F-sharp, or something like that.”

Artists of all types talk about having a muse — an intangible inspiration, stimulus or creative influence.  In Greek mythology, the Muses were the nine goddesses (daughters of Zeus) who presided over the arts and sciences, and the Muses could be very unpredictable.

Songwriters point out that their muse ebbs and flows, and can sometimes seem to disappear for long stretches (the so-called “writer’s block”).  Carly Simon offers this recollection:  “My songwriting artistry has gone through many phases, including one time where it has been very quiet and abandoned me completely for a few years.  That was really frightening.  I didn’t know if I’d ever get it back.”

Songwriting is a curious art form that, like most art forms, cannot be rushed.  It is for this reason that artists and their corporate benefactors are often at odds about how much time is necessary to produce quality work.  As rocker Nick Cave puts it:  “My relationship with my muse is a delicate one at the best of times, and I feel it is my duty to protect her from influences that may offend her fragile nature.  My muse is not a horse, and I am not in a horse race.”

Springsteen, a notoriously prolific songwriter for most of his 50-year career, concedes even he has had times when he couldn’t come up with anything:  “I wish I could write every day, but I’ve sometimes gone for long periods of time without writing because I didn’t have any good ideas, or whatever is in there is just sort of gestating.  Sometimes, I’ve had to force myself to write.  I think what happens is you move in and out of different veins.  You’re mining, and you hit a vein, and then you go with that, and then it dries up.”

Patience and perseverance are crucial for songwriters, they say.  Many failures come before they hit on a song they really like.  Gerry Goffin, the lyricist and ex-husband of songwriter Carole King, was part of the famous Brill Building stable of songwriting teams who reported for work each day and were expected to crank out hit songs like some sort of factory assembly line.  Goffin was pragmatic about that kind of creative environment:  “You’ve got to realize it’s a hit or miss process.  But my advice would be, Don’t be afraid to write a bad song, because the next one may be great.”

My daughter Emily Hackett is a Nashville-based singer-songwriter who writes on her own or in collaboration with others.  Either way, she says, it’s a process of exploration.  “There’s a lot of discovery in songwriting.  If you’re doing it right, you’re constantly discovering new avenues.  You could take a certain road for five or ten minutes and not get anywhere, but that’s okay.  Try a different road.  Eventually you’ll land on the right path, and the song will unfold.”

The late Tom Petty drew an analogy between writing a song and catching a fish:  “Songwriting is pretty lonely work.  I think a lot of people don’t have the patience for it.  You’re not necessarily going to get one every time you try.  In fact, most times you try, you’re not going to get one.  It’s like fishing.  You’re fishing, and you either caught a fish, or you didn’t.  If you did, there’s one in the boat; if you didn’t, there’s not.  But you’ve got to go back and keep your pole in the water.  That’s the only way you’re going to get a bite.”

We music lovers should be grateful that songwriters are often almost addicted to their art.  They enjoy writing songs, certainly, but sometimes it becomes an obsession that haunts them, and doesn’t let go until the piece is finished.  John Lennon had this to say about that:  “It’s like being possessed.  It won’t let you sleep, so you have to get up, make it into something, and then you’re allowed to sleep.  That’s always in the middle of the bloody night, when you’re half awake and your critical facilities are switched off.”

Country songwriter Dolly Parton has said she looks forward to those times when she isn’t touring or leading a busy life so she has the opportunity to focus on writing new songs.  “I always long for that block of time and space when I can go on a writing binge, because I’m really addicted to songwriting.”

Some songwriters are amazed when they come up with a great song and wonder why no one had beaten them to the punch.  Says Keith Richards:  “With most of the songs I’ve written, I’ve felt there’s this gap waiting to be filled, and I think, man, this song should have been written hundreds of years ago.  How did nobody else pick up on that little space before?”

Other tunesmiths are such perfectionists that, once they’ve recorded and released a song, they find themselves forever unhappy with the result.  Here’s Joni Mitchell talking:  “When I listen back to my early music, it’s always, ‘Why didn’t I put a guitar fill there?  Why did I sing the line like that?  And why am I whining?'”

Although he hates to be labeled as a “poet laureate,” Bob Dylan acknowledges that that’s how people see him. And yet, although his lyrics are sharply original, he insists his music is derivative. “You have to understand that I’m not a melodist. My songs are either based on old Protestant hymns, or Carter Family songs, or variations of the blues form. What happens is, I’ll take a song and simply start playing it in my head. That’s the way I meditate. I wrote ‘Blowin’ in the Wind’ in 10 minutes, just putting words to an old spiritual.” 

Some pop songwriters have found themselves facing lawsuits because their song sounds like another song that’s already been written.  In 1976, a court found George Harrison had “subconsciously plagiarized” The Chiffons’ song “He’s So Fine” when he wrote “My Sweet Lord,” and awarded millions in royalties, which later spurred Harrison to write “This Song,” with these lyrics:  “This song has nothing tricky about it, this song ain’t black or white, and as far as I know don’t infringe on anyone’s copyright, so this song we’ll let be…”

Lennon once said:  “You know, there are only so many notes.”  Springsteen maintains, “Everyone steals from everyone else.”  Folk singer Pete Seeger famously wrote, “So sing, change, add to, subtract.  But beware multiplying.  If you record and start making hundreds of copies, watch out.  Write a letter first.  Get permission.”